‘They were asking...’: US woman talks about challenges of adapting to India’s dinner party traditions, video goes viral

Since moving to India in 2021, American influencer Kristen Fischer has been navigating the fascinating and sometimes challenging cultural differences. In a recent viral Instagram video, Kristen shared her experiences with one of the most surprising adjustments she’s faced—India’s unique approach to dinner parties.

Used to the American way of serving meals promptly during gatherings, Kristen admitted she was initially confused by the Indian custom of prioritizing socializing over immediate dining. “I always sit there hungry, wondering when the food will be served,” she confessed, adding that the delay in meals caught her off guard.

From Prompt Meals to Late-Night Dining
Kristen explained the stark contrast between the two cultures. “In America, conversations usually happen after the meal, but in India, it’s before,” she said. She shared a memorable instance of attending a dinner party that left her baffled. When she decided to leave at 11 p.m., she was shocked to learn that the food hadn’t been served yet. “They asked why I was leaving so early, and I was thinking it’s late, and I need to sleep,” she revealed. She admitted to coming home from such gatherings and making a sandwich before bed to stave off hunger.

 

 

 

 

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Currently living in Delhi with her family, Kristen has embraced many aspects of Indian culture but continues to struggle with this particular tradition. “I honestly don’t understand it. Wouldn’t the food get cold? Or do people stay in the kitchen cooking instead of spending time with their guests?” she wondered, highlighting her ongoing culture shock.

Social Media Reacts
Kristen’s candid video struck a chord with viewers, sparking a lively conversation on social media. Many Indians explained the cultural importance of socializing before meals. “Welcome to India! It’s all about the social vibes first,” one user commented. Another added, “The food is the grand finale, not the opening act.”

Some sympathized with Kristen’s struggles. “I’ve been here for years and still sneak snacks before dinner parties,” one person admitted. Others offered lighthearted advice, with one suggesting, “Pro tip: Eat before you go!”

While adapting to this cultural difference remains a challenge, Kristen’s openness and humor about her experiences have won her fans and sparked meaningful discussions about traditions and cultural exchange.